We all know that self-love is crucial for our mental and emotional well-being. It’s about accepting ourselves, flaws and all, and treating ourselves with kindness and compassion. But let’s be honest, loving ourselves isn’t always easy. Past experiences, negative self-talk, and even societal pressures can chip away at our self-esteem, leaving us feeling inadequate or unworthy.
If you are struggling with self-love, you are not alone. And there are ways to improve your relationships with yourself. One promising approach is EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy.

What is EMDR Therapy?
Originally developed to treat trauma, EMDR therapy has been found to be effective for a wide range of mental health concerns, including low self-esteem and self-worth. During EMDR sessions, you’ll focus on a specific negative memory or belief while following your therapist’s guidance, often involving gentle eye movements.
How EMDR Can Boost Your Self-Love
- Unpacking Past Hurts: EMDR can help you process past experiences that may be contributing to your low self-esteem, such as childhood trauma, bullying, or negative relationships. By processing these memories, you can begin to heal and move on.
- Challenging Negative Beliefs: We all have that inner critic – that nagging voice that tells us we’re not good enough. EMDR can help you identify and challenge these negative beliefs, replacing them with more positive and realistic thoughts.
- Building Self-Compassion: EMDR can help you cultivate self-compassion, which involves treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer a friend.
Telehealth Makes Therapy Accessible
Life can get busy, and sometimes it’s difficult to make it to in-person therapy appointments. That’s where telehealth comes in! Telehealth allows you to connect with a qualified therapist from the comfort of your own home. This flexibility can make it easier to prioritize your mental health and stick to your therapy sessions.
Dr. Sara C is a renowned therapist specializing in EMDR, CBT, and DBT therapies, providing top-rated telehealth services to Newport Beach, CA; Beverly Hills, CA; San Diego, CA; Portland, OR; Jacksonville, OR; Dallas, TX; and Houston, TX. Choose her for the best therapy in California, Texas, and Oregon.